Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent

Purpose Experiencing childhood abuse is associated with an increased risk of developing a broad range of health issues and might impact the experience of transitioning into parenthood. We therefore wanted to explore how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent. Methods Using the met...

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Main Authors: Signe Hjelen Stige, Martin Mauritzson Greve, Kari Anne Trefall
Format: Article
Language:English
Published: Taylor & Francis Group 2025-12-01
Series:International Journal of Qualitative Studies on Health & Well-Being
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Online Access:http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/17482631.2025.2523175
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description Purpose Experiencing childhood abuse is associated with an increased risk of developing a broad range of health issues and might impact the experience of transitioning into parenthood. We therefore wanted to explore how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent. Methods Using the method of meta-ethnography, we synthesized the findings from 13 primary studies. Results The meta-synthesis resulted in three themes: 1) Own experiences of abuse enhance the desire to be a good parent; 2) Own experiences of abuse challenges parents in their new role; and 3) Becoming a parent as an opportunity to start a healing process. Conclusion Our results indicated that parents shared a dedication to providing their children with a better childhood than they had experienced. However, many parents struggled with low self-efficacy, and several became aware of their difficulties with attachment and emotional regulation when they became parents. Although challenging, the parenting role was also a source of positive and healing experiences. The implications of these results are discussed.
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spelling doaj-art-d42d4b2ade2a40be8e3e113eb73bf5a12025-08-20T03:28:29ZengTaylor & Francis GroupInternational Journal of Qualitative Studies on Health & Well-Being1748-26231748-26312025-12-0120110.1080/17482631.2025.25231752523175Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parentSigne Hjelen Stige0Martin Mauritzson Greve1Kari Anne Trefall2University of BergenUniversity of BergenUniversity of BergenPurpose Experiencing childhood abuse is associated with an increased risk of developing a broad range of health issues and might impact the experience of transitioning into parenthood. We therefore wanted to explore how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent. Methods Using the method of meta-ethnography, we synthesized the findings from 13 primary studies. Results The meta-synthesis resulted in three themes: 1) Own experiences of abuse enhance the desire to be a good parent; 2) Own experiences of abuse challenges parents in their new role; and 3) Becoming a parent as an opportunity to start a healing process. Conclusion Our results indicated that parents shared a dedication to providing their children with a better childhood than they had experienced. However, many parents struggled with low self-efficacy, and several became aware of their difficulties with attachment and emotional regulation when they became parents. Although challenging, the parenting role was also a source of positive and healing experiences. The implications of these results are discussed.http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/17482631.2025.2523175abusetraumachildhoodparenthoodparent
spellingShingle Signe Hjelen Stige
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Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent
International Journal of Qualitative Studies on Health & Well-Being
abuse
trauma
childhood
parenthood
parent
title Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent
title_full Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent
title_fullStr Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent
title_full_unstemmed Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent
title_short Wanting to provide the childhood they never got – a meta-synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent
title_sort wanting to provide the childhood they never got a meta synthesis of how survivors of childhood abuse experience becoming a parent
topic abuse
trauma
childhood
parenthood
parent
url http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/17482631.2025.2523175
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