Guiding Clients Towards Self-Kindness and Acceptance: Wrestling With the Inner Critic

Research and methodology on the treatment of self-criticism in counselling is limited in the recent literature. This article describes how harsh automatic self-criticism became viewed within several theoretical frameworks as a sub-personality with a purpose rather than a simple psychological mechani...

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Main Authors: Mark Pearson, Helen Wilson
Format: Article
Language:English
Published: Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia 2024-09-01
Series:Psychotherapy and Counselling Journal of Australia
Online Access:https://doi.org/10.59158/001c.123356
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description Research and methodology on the treatment of self-criticism in counselling is limited in the recent literature. This article describes how harsh automatic self-criticism became viewed within several theoretical frameworks as a sub-personality with a purpose rather than a simple psychological mechanism. The article reviews a number of approaches to therapeutic work with clients experiencing habitual self-criticism. It outlines eight therapeutic steps to gaining freedom from the inner critic, including getting to know self-critical "voices", understanding their origins, recognising what activates escalation of self-criticism, and making efforts that create distance from the corrosive effect of self-criticism. Ways to become grounded and self-compassionate, and to develop an individualised wellbeing plan are discussed as components of gaining freedom from self-critical dominance.
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