Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of Narcissism

A central question within contemporary debates about the structure of self-love concerns the place and status of the other. Is self-love identical to, or at least vulnerable to, the accusation of self-absorption and narcissism? Whereas contemporary critiques of self-love argue self-love is in princi...

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Main Author: Joseph Rivera
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description A central question within contemporary debates about the structure of self-love concerns the place and status of the other. Is self-love identical to, or at least vulnerable to, the accusation of self-absorption and narcissism? Whereas contemporary critiques of self-love argue self-love is in principle impossible, the present essay suggests that self-love can be integrated with the love of the other at an <i>a priori</i> level. This material <i>a priori</i>, distinct from the Kantian formal <i>a priori</i>, entails resources such as commitment to myself, to the other, and to us as relational unit, as well as to the enforcement of boundaries that protects against acts of injury and abuse instigated against that relational unit; I suggest such resources overcome the charge of narcissism levelled at the very idea of self-love. Prior to that, a brief contextual discussion of key moves about philosophical anthropology, focused on the concept of the monad in Leibniz, Husserl and its extreme repudiation in Jean-Luc Marion, is to be addressed. Finally I assess the intimate relationship between self-love and the love of the other inspired in large part by Augustine’s anthropology.
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spelling doaj-art-5e1f5d9097df43e58b41f78feade05892025-08-20T02:44:43ZengMDPI AGPhilosophies2409-92872025-01-01101610.3390/philosophies10010006Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of NarcissismJoseph Rivera0School of Theology, Philosophy, and Music, Dublin City University, Dublin 9, D09 V209 Dublin, IrelandA central question within contemporary debates about the structure of self-love concerns the place and status of the other. Is self-love identical to, or at least vulnerable to, the accusation of self-absorption and narcissism? Whereas contemporary critiques of self-love argue self-love is in principle impossible, the present essay suggests that self-love can be integrated with the love of the other at an <i>a priori</i> level. This material <i>a priori</i>, distinct from the Kantian formal <i>a priori</i>, entails resources such as commitment to myself, to the other, and to us as relational unit, as well as to the enforcement of boundaries that protects against acts of injury and abuse instigated against that relational unit; I suggest such resources overcome the charge of narcissism levelled at the very idea of self-love. Prior to that, a brief contextual discussion of key moves about philosophical anthropology, focused on the concept of the monad in Leibniz, Husserl and its extreme repudiation in Jean-Luc Marion, is to be addressed. Finally I assess the intimate relationship between self-love and the love of the other inspired in large part by Augustine’s anthropology.https://www.mdpi.com/2409-9287/10/1/6phenomenologylovenarcissismthe otherthe a prioriMarion
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Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of Narcissism
Philosophies
phenomenology
love
narcissism
the other
the a priori
Marion
title Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of Narcissism
title_full Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of Narcissism
title_fullStr Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of Narcissism
title_full_unstemmed Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of Narcissism
title_short Whom Do I Love When I Love Myself? The Challenge of Narcissism
title_sort whom do i love when i love myself the challenge of narcissism
topic phenomenology
love
narcissism
the other
the a priori
Marion
url https://www.mdpi.com/2409-9287/10/1/6
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